Talking about relationships and the distinction between friend and boyfriend, there are still some aspects that are COMPLETELY different in perspective between girls and guys. It seems that boys are more willing and courageous to take that chance of going out with a girl with literally only knowing her for a day or so. Girls, on the other hand, prefer that they establish some sort of bond, be it friend or even more, to be in a relationship. No girl, unless she is a skank, wants to be in an immediate relationship with a guy without actually knowing him. Here’s a situation from a guy’s perspective (thanks to the assistance from today): There’s a guy and a girl, and the guy likes the girl…ASK HER OUT ALREADY! Here’s the same situation but from a girl’s perspective: There’s a guy and a girl, and the guy likes the girl. The guy should wait to ask her out in order for each to know one another better. Then, if the guy is past the “friend stage”, he can possibly ask the girl out. BUT, the important part in this situation is that there has to be something established beforehand.
Today, that was discussed to the point where it got confusing…well, for the guy it did. I just think it’s funny how guys and girls have the most polar opposite views but can still make something out of it to date. I guess there just has to be the right people on both sides to make it work?
I also thought it was interesting how, even though a person likes someone, they refer to that person as a pronoun based on gender, obviously he/she or him/her. If that person is so special and almost dear to your heart, why categorize them as a ’him’ or ‘her’. For instance, “I know she’s there, and I do want to go because she’s there.” It’s like the actual name of that person is dangerous to say. I understand the use of those pronouns for the confidentiality and sly approach (trust me, I’ve had my fair share of he’s and him’s), but why not just say the name? I’ve went out on plenty of limbs to tell a guy that I like him, and, yes, I was scared at the moment but it did pass. After telling them, you find out if they are who you really thought they were. Plus, saying the name will let other people know who you like, especially nosy people like me.
Why is it that all the relationship talks happen at mexican restaurants?
Eagle.
